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That tingling in the tummy when you hear the name of your beloved being mentioned, Amara my course mate back in my university days said one afternoon at our cubicle "Anytime you say Nnamdi's name it gets me excited " Nnamdi was her boyfriend .
The smiles creeps in involuntarily,you want to talk about the person all the time even when everybody around you had gotten tired of hearing you tell stories of your dinner dates ,your numerous hang outs and your quality times together.
the endless phone conversations, unscheduled phone calls, midnight pillow talks etc.
The sensational sensual waves in the tummy when he or she calls your name. the glitters and sparkles that's always obvious in your eyes,you fold yourself up on your pillow and curl up under the sheets reminiscing ,memories of the times you spent together creeping in. the last night images still very fresh and you wouldn't want anything to stop that feeling. It goes on and on,it's surreal and you are enjoying it
That feeling is a stage. It could lead to something that could last forever, It could be a temporary thing.
When a man or woman makes you feel good and giddy,chances are you'll want to stay with that feeling. It's fun and thrilling. You could bend your own rules without qualms when that electifying button is on. it feels like home, you would think ,you're finally home, everything feels home natural, what more? when they tease every nerves in you and are capable of putting you to sleep?
When he or she picks up your calls whenever
When you go to bed with their calls and wakes up to their calls and texts messages ,they buzz you in the middle of the night to check up on you.
When he or she sends you text and replies to your text immediately
When he or she tells you sweet words that touches your heart.
When he or she cares about your physical and emotional well-being.
These are being seen as a prove we are in the right place. he or she makes you feel giddy .you shivers under the sound of their voice .
Beyond the butterfly-in-the-tummy theory there exists some stronger elements that could sum up your feelings and give it the real definition and this could help you in making a choice whether to choose them or not.
When you remember that there could be a time in your relationship when issues will come up and this feelings could be tampered with,its normal as human beings to get hurt and upset by some acts, in such instance the feelings folds for awhile .have you bothered to find out how your partner react to issues?
How does he or she take in things when it seems to be contrary to their opinion?
Is he or she considerate selfless and understanding ?
How emotionally intelligent is your partner?
When everything starts and ends with them. It must be the way he or she feels and wants it.
If there's no room for effective communication and opinion sampling,it could limit the chances of one of the partners not putting in their thoughts or opinions in the relationship. because one of them is domineering !in this scenario, it's intimidating to one individual while the other individual is enjoying ,these type. Of relocating does not allow growth and sooner than later the cracks will begin to show.
Overlooking the important attributes and characteristics for some sweet feelings does not really help most relationships.
There are certain attributes a relationship needs to stand the test of time. relying solely on the momentarily sensual sensations have most times fail.
Combining qualities and the erotic attractiveness from our partners is sure very important.
My mom told me there are two types of love.
the love you find outside marriage and the love you develop inside marriage.
If the attributes are lacking the butterfly may fly away with time but when the qualities are there from the first time with the sensational feelings. It sustains the relationship and it last longe even when the sweet feelings fades.
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