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No relatiionship is perfect, at least it's two different individuals coming together to be partners ,nobody wants to go into any relationship and walk out of it purposely (at least not for Real men and women), so you get into a relationship ,trying your best and putting in your effort to make it work,
Because it is not a one -person business, you may not know what the other person in the relationship with you is thinking, But you can tell when a relationship isn't going to last that long
Here are some of the tell tales, it's just a waste of time.
1,There Are No Future Plans
It's important to allocate space for the person you're in a relationship with and have exclusive talks about your plans for each other,your career and ideal family setting , the use of "Us" instead of "I" in important discussion is a heart lifting sign they are on it together with you, people who created space for you in their future ,opens up their long term plans! Business deals, investments and life goals, When none of these is happening in your relationship, it's one super sign they have no space for you in their future.
2,You Are Yet To Meet Their Immediate Family
If they really want you permanently, few weeks into meeting you, they will introduce you to their immediate family and close /important friends, if they are not sure if they are really into you, or they are in for some head wash, they'd be dragging,
A friend told me how the guy she dated dragged her inside his bedroom and locked her inside, when his family members visited impromptuly.she wanted to still stay after that incident, but I told her that it's a deal breaker, she insisted on giving him another chance because she was crazily obsessed with him, at the end she had her heart shattered.
3,There Is No Room For Heart To Heart Conversation.
When it's argument every time, there's little space for discussion, it threatens the peace of a relationship, it feels like things will break up at any moment, a little argument leads to closing out, shutting down each one of you on the phone, staying away from each other for days, then it's not just isn't going to work, it is toxic as well. Couples argue ,disagree as well as misunderstand one another, but when it's becoming threatening, it's a sign the relationship will pack up in no distance time.
4,Your Personalities Don't Seem To Match .
And you're trying too hard to change each other, nobody changes over night. and the truth is that people have different characteristics, people have a life style they are comfortable with, people have a life they are living they need to meet people who share similar values with them, this is "COMPATIBILITY",When It seems you're not finding the rhythm, and each one of you is trying to change one another to fit into what they want them to be, they are forcing it and it doesn't work that way, it's a true sign of incompatibility and dead end for any relationship.
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