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While to some women it may be out of shyness,their gut always fail them,but to some it's not just their thing but come on,why would it be hard for a woman to initiate love making in a union she went into with a man she claimed she loved?
There’s one thing comforting regarding having your partner be the one to initiate sex . When your husband initiates lovemaking it gives you the confidence that he’s in the mood and makes you feel desired.
However, if your spouse is the only one initiating sex it makes your sex life one sided .this could make them to feel uncomfortable and be wondering if really you are physically and/or sexually attracted to them.
A lot of women get on edge once it seems they're crazy about love making while their spouse aren't, most women will not be comfortable with the tag of a sex maniac,but they desire to get intimate most of the time,they get pissed off and can go without sex because they're not eager to be the one to make the first move
A close friend confided in me on how her husband had accused her of either been a same sex lover or she had something wrong health wise"it felt awkward waking him up in the middle of the night to request we make love,but I guessed it was a turn on for him ,he desired I'd ask for it at least once in awhile but I was too shy to come around "
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Going without sex just because you aren’t sure how to make the move can make you frustrated and angry with your partner. But remember, he is not a mind reader.Getting intimate with your husband shouldn't be something to feel embarrassed about.
From subtle to in-your-face style we’re looking at ways to kick start moves for love making with your husband.
(1)Create Sexually Tensed up atmosphere
If you want to make the first move but aren’t sure where to begin, don’t be nervous. You don’t have to be especially forward or do anything outside of your comfort zone to get his attention. Letting your husband know you’re in the mood doesn’t mean pouncing on him as soon as he walks through the front door.
Initiating sex is all about creating a buildup.
(a)You can plan a romantic evening with wine and light some candles. Or be spontaneous and start by offering him a massage or snuggle on the couch while you watch television. He will get the hint.
At the ladies night we had few women confessed they start cat-calling their hubby to join them in bed so early while going about the bedroom or going in and out of the study wearing sexy lingerie "my husband always smiles at my antics knowingly, he perfectly understands I needed his touches" Vivien said
(2) Dirty Texts works like charm.
If you’re not cool with verbalizing your wishes, why not text it to your husband? Many couples send titillating photos back and forth, however, sending naked photos may not always be so private as there may be chances of other people getting hold of our phones. There are plenty of ways to send a suggestive message, I'm a lover of words so I'd always advocate for word texting without photos. For example, you could take a picture of your sexiest lingerie laid out on the bed while typing out your desires.
A simple line saying that you can’t wait for him to get home followed up by a silly yet suggestive emoji will send the message loud and clear.
(3)Get naughty codes.
If you’re shy about initiating sex but still want your man to know you’re into the idea, you can set up a naughty codeword in advance.
Choose codes solely you and your spouse will grasp what it means This sense of naughty mystery creates intimacy and boosts excitement between you and your partner. This way, he knows exactly what you want when you get back home.
Physical relation is a very important part of a love relationship, it plays a key role in unifying couples therefore none of the individuals involved should overlook it or take it for granted.
If you're having.difficulties balancing your physical relationship with your spouse,kindly reach out so you can get help .Emailchicrystal90@gmail.com
