Remember that being sexy is an attitude?, it begins with your level of believe and the confidence you ooze,the way you carry yourself in and out, to your emotional intelligence,
Maintaining an enviable standard ,being loving, Having a listening ear and your level of adaptability scores you highly as an evolved sexual being .
A woman's sex appeal is more than appearing nude, exposing sensitive parts and sending nude pic,
A girl confided in me in a conversation I had with her, she told me that her man always leaves her not satisfied after sex "it makes me feel like I'm an addict when I have to be the one asking for sex all the time, I have a high libido and his desires doesn't match mine, I have to resort to masturbation "
I told her to open up conversation with her man in that regard, an open heart to heart conversation is the greatest antidote to unity in a happy relationship.
she listened to me and initiated a conversation, she painted a
a picture of her loving sex more and pleaded with her man to understand so the both of them can find a way out but something happened in the course of their chat(I followed their chat with her permission, she invited me on though the man wasn't aware) while she was trying to explain her sexual make up to her man, a discussion I knew was long overdue, the man said "I know you love sex, I do as well, just try to always look neat and sweet for me" end of quote
I picked that line and concentrated on teaching her the real definition of "sexiness",she was an expert in pictoral Sexting but it was not working for her.
She was actually the problem,her lousiness. was as result of misinformation, one of those who believes sexiness is all about sharing nude pics and dirty chats. her man had nothing to trigger his imagination and fantasy, they lived in different cities and get to meet every two months, in the real sense the sexiness should begin even before the man returns home,
Because being sexy is an attitude, one is expected to know intrusion into a partner's mind is allowed to awaken his emotional connection with you and to help create sweet fantasy.
You have to be endearing to your man in order to leave unforgetable memories,
How do you create this hard to forget sexiness?
How many times do you check up on your partner? You can do that through messaging, there are lots of messaging apps that makes this very easy, intrude into his thoughts with love messages, remind them always they are still the one who caught your eyes and stirred your hearts.
Angel told me her man had busy schedule, with his job taking almost 80% of his time "I know he has little time for relaxation so I make it count, nothing soothes a man more than having a warm bossom to rest his head after hours in the office. I massage him with words right from the first hour till he runs home to me, he always warned me playfully about me causing him to loss concentration and misdirecting messages, but it's what I enjoy doing, I leave no space in his head, all I do is fill his memories with fantasies of me"
It works like charm especially when you know what your partner loves and you follow up.
Then coming home those fantasies should be sustained, if what he's seeing does not complement the images your words created in his mind, he will keep searching for what looks like it, this is where the real sexiness is, men are moved by sight, this does not include sending nude pic, firstly the connection, the ability to connect with one another in all levels, then making it home natural by being real and appearing neat,your warm welcoming spirit,your warming company and ability to understand one another's body language and reading each other's mood,....what happens in the bedroom is no longer the genesis like most people believe.
"I have experienced countless orgasms with his words without him touching me, I've made love with him In different positions in my head, shared with him unspoken words in my subconscious "
Anytime our bodies touches something must go down, we have created huge sexual tension between us through deep soul communication.
The act of 'being sexual is created and should be sustained, it makes you hard to forget, you become exclusive,a compulsory Go-to, but only to the one who has invested in you.
