Simisola Sowole Said She Won't Mind If Her Man Cheats On Her As Long As He Loves And Respects Her.

Simisola  Sowole  wrote  on  11/24/15 at about  2.38 pm on her Twitter  page that  she  won't  mind if  her  man cheats on  her, as long as  he loves  and respects her.

In her words she wrote "This might sound crazy but over the  years ,I've  realised that I don't really  mind if a guy  cheats  as long as  he still  loves ,respects  and  performs  his duty as a partner "
"it is something  I'm  going to  discuss  with  my  husband  in the  future ,I don't  like  secrets"

"This  is not even  about  self esteem, far from  it, And yes, someone  can love you and  still have sexual intercourse with another  person, and I still  need  his attention, That is the  most important, we  will still  retain the  attention  we give  one  another " Simisola  concluded.

What  do you  term "partner's  duty?
When a partner   is  sleeping  with  someone who is not  the  person  they're in  a relationship  with, is that  person  not failing  in their duties?

Yes I agree with the  part where  she  wrote that  someone  can  love someone  and still  have  sex with another  person,what I don't  agree with is that  the  cheater  will still be  able to  love  the  person  they're  cheating  on, respect  them and  still  gives  each other the  same  attention,I don't  agree

The  moment  one  partner  begin to cheat, comparison  will  creep in, there  will be  some  emotional  detachment, there's  definitely  going to be  loss of respect to some extent ,it  will  never be the  same.the attention  is being  shared and the  sexual  satisfaction   the  cheater  derives  from the  persons  they  have  sex with  will  determine  where the  greater  chunk of the attention   will go to ,whether we want to admit it  or not, sex has a strong  hold on the human  emotions.my opinion ,I would  love to  read from you.

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5 Things You May Do That Will MakeYour Girlfriend Mad At You.

Talking About Other Girls

 The only thing you will get doing this is a headache and  blue balls,
Take  your girls emotional health into consideration, she will definitely feel you're not loyal ,maybe you're having secret admiration on the girl you talk about, she will feel she's not enough for you.

*Respect her emotions by showering her with all the compliments,don't dwell on talks about some other girl

Taking Time To Text Back

No woman wants to be ignored, she knows you have your phone in your hand almost all day so she expects you to text back as soon as possible.

*You may be busy with stuff,try to take  out little time to check your phone and reply her text after all she is also an important part of your life.

Lack Of Interest

 Men don't always understand girls logic, the interest is all encompassing.. Tell her words of  endearment, make her feel important and exclusive.

Your girl is out here trying to love you, she wants to be the centre of your life, she wants to be  involved in everything about you, Carry her along,involve her in the important decisions  you make,it will guarantee her safety with you.

Spending More Time With The Guys

Prioritize your time,she understands you will hang out with the guys but she expects you to also give spending times with her a whole thought.
Girls always want attention give it to her

Devoting Times To Other Girl's Online Activities.

She already started stalking and tagging her  the "other girl" she will feel disrespected when you use other girls  pictures on your dp,like their  posts.

You will not avoid following other girls on social media, it's  girls  problem,just be mild so you don't provoke jealousy in your girl.

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